About
Barry helps couples and men in New York and North Carolina untangle the intersection of intimacy, sex, emotion, and identity, especially when anxiety, performance pressure, porn overuse, low desire, or erectile unpredictability have created distance, self‑doubt, or cycles of avoidance. Sessions are active, structured, and shame‑free: we map the feedback loop between physiology, thoughts, attachment patterns, and relational dynamics so interventions feel precise (not generic “talk”). Expect targeted strategies for performance anxiety/ED, libido recalibration plans, porn use restructuring, erotic mindfulness, desire dialogues, and communication micro‑skills for high‑stakes topics (mismatch in desire, fantasy disclosure, repair after shutdowns). We measure what matters for progress; confidence, desire variance, and relational safety.
Specialties
Insurance Accepted
- Aetna
- Optum
- Oxford
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