Dr. Scott D HuckabyPsychologist, PsyD (he, him)

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Are you finding yourself repeatedly pulled into relationships that feel unclear, one-sided, or emotionally draining? You may be dealing with partners who shut down during conflict, avoid accountability, or keep things ambiguous—leaving you overthinking, waiting, or carrying more of the emotional load. Many gay men I work with are navigating open or non-traditional relationship structures and want practical tools to set clearer boundaries, disengage from unhealthy dynamics, and build relationships that feel more stable, reciprocal, and self-respecting. I’m a Stanford-trained psychologist with over 16 years of experience helping gay men change unhelpful relationship patterns using evidence-based, skills-focused therapy. My approach is structured and direct. We identify what keeps you stuck and develop clear strategies to respond differently and make more confident relationship decisions.

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