Hilary GouldingMarriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT

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You're feeling more like roommates than partners, stuck in the same arguments, or carrying unspoken hurt that never quite gets resolved. You're probably juggling work, kids, and a thousand small things so the relationship just gets whatever scraps of energy are left. Maybe things look fine on the outside, but inside the relationship feels tense, distant or heavier than it used to. You want closeness again and you want it to feel easier. With over 15 years of experience (and as a partner and working mom of 3), I help couples understand what's really happening between them and rebuild connection that feels safe, warm, and real. I specialize in helping couples who are tired of feeling misunderstood, stuck in loops, or living separate lives. Whether you're juggling kids, careers, endless chores, or the emotional/mental load that somehow multiplies overnight, we'll make sense of the patterns keeping you stuck and help you reconnect in ways that actually feel good.

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