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Like so many people, I sometimes fall into thinking that “Things will be better when…,” “If I only had…,” and “I wish I were more like….”. Although it is tempting and easy to do, the end result of thinking this way is consistent disappointment, critical self-talk, feelings of not being “enough,” and hopelessness. The irony is that we create these circumstances unknowingly and become captive to our misplaced hopes and desires. We live this way in secret, pretending that all is well, hoping that no one sees between the gaps.
