Kobi BordoleyCounselor, MA, LMHC (he, him)

About

Are you caught between competing identities, beliefs, and desires? Are you struggling to heal from trauma, overcome despair, or maintain boundaries? Do you find yourself socially or politically misunderstood by those around you? Do you repeat the same unsatisfying patterns in work, friendship, relationships, and with yourself? Together, we can explore all this in a curious, collaborative, non-judgmental way. All feelings and beliefs are welcome, no matter how confusing or contradictory they may seem at first. I believe that the best therapy is affirming yet challenging, and built on trust, joy, and humor. It's never too late to try. I specialize in gender, sexuality (inc. poly/ENM, kink) intimacy & attachment, trauma, identity, grief, chronic illness/disability/caregiving, masculinity, religion, anxiety/depression, intergenerational trauma, and marginalization. I am also attuned to Jewish community topics like assimilation, family dynamics, faith, Israel/Palestine, antisemitism + more.

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