Jan CareyClinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW-C, LCSW, CST (she, her)

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You want a deeper connection with your partner but the awkwardness or conflict between you both have left you defeated. You're now walking on eggshells. Does your partner see and hear you? It doesn't feel like it. You feel stuck with a partner who will never appreciate you or understand you as a person. Sex too is awkward and now feels like a chore. One of you is pushing for it, the other avoiding it. You wish that you felt closer to your partner and more attracted to them. If only sex was interesting and pleasurable...but it's not. Sex is now a chore that involves lots of hurt feelings if it doesn't happen.

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